Would you go under the knife in the name of beauty?
Posted by: annacathryn
31st Oct 2012 11:16am
New research has recently revealed that 1 in 5 women in Seoul have had plastic surgery. Would you or have you been under the knife in the name of beauty?
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Comments 461
Vanessa 32284508
It depends if it will help my overall health at the same time.
21Teens
I would not go under the knife. I would spend the money on a good psychologist to help me accept the things that I don't like myself. Self improvement comes from deep within, not from a knife.
Moongold
Yes, had a face lift and a (not large) breast reduction just before the cosmetic surgery "surge" started in Australia. It was helpful at the time as I had self-worth issues that really caused me to suffer and I do think it helped to 'give me a few more years' that I felt deprived of after ending a long-term relationship. The only thing I wasn't happy about was the scarring on my breasts and the fact that one ear lobe is now slightly longer than the other! However, overall I don't regret having it done, but do regret having to pay so much for it! I would advise however consulting only a trusted surgeon who provides full information on all that can be expected/not expected from the surgery, and who is known for careful and safe work.
Moongold
Yes, had a face lift and a (not large) breast reduction just before the cosmetic surgery "surge" started in Australia. It was helpful at the time as I had self-worth issues that really caused me to suffer and I do think it helped to 'give me a few more years' that I felt deprived of after ending a long-term relationship. The only thing I wasn't happy about was the scarring on my breasts and the fact that one ear lobe is now slightly longer than the other! However, overall I don't regret having it done, but do regret having to pay so much for it! I would advise however consulting only a trusted surgeon who provides full information on all that can be expected/not expected from the surgery, and who is known for careful and safe work.
dicky a
NOT A CHANCE !!!!!
funnysag
Yes I would and I am considering it in the future just to lift some sagging skin mainly on my face.
Ruskie30748487
Not if I ended up looking like Burt Reynolds or Paul Hogen. They can afford the best, with my lowly income I think I'd be in trouble! So, thanks but no thanks.
wendel
If I had the money I would consider it, as long as it wasn't done by a dodgy operator.
marg
I wouldn't go under the knife just for beauty I think it is stupid unless you have a problem that need fixing but for vanity noway people don't like my look that is just to bad age gracefully I say
Ruskie30748487
Not need, this handsome feller feels good enough in his own skin.
wendel
Probably not. Thanks.
monkeygirl
Never! Why subject your body to the extra trauma and stress associated with surgery?? Also, it is easy to tell when someone has had cosmetic surgery - the eyes appear catlike, the face is stretched etc I love when you see a perfect face atop a wrinkly neck!
Rach31961570
I personally would not undergo plastic surgery. While I do have some features about myself I am not satisfied with, they are what makes me a unique person.
However, I am understanding of people who might have plastic surgery. If you have the money and are extremely driven to change something about yourself, then the decision is up to you.
Brad
No, I'd use my correct name... .
'Beauty' is a helluva name for a bloke, anyway!
Ellie 30656027
No I'd rather age gracefully. It may have a bad effect and end up spending more money fixing it.
Nefertari
I would not go under the knife simply in the name of beauty. Having said that though I realise that imperfections in our looks can cause severe emotional distress in some people especially when they compare themselves to what is considered the norm. Aside from that there is also the factor that people who have had an accident and been injured as a result might need to do this. But those things aside I would never consider it even if I had the money for such a process.
Ziah
For vanity? No. To remove the rolls of loose skin left over from my 60kg weight loss? In a heartbeat if I had the money. Not afraid of surgery (I've had dozens of surgeries and have over 1.5m of scars as a result), but the cost is just totally prohibitive. As for things like botox for wrinkles or fillers or plumpers? Forget it. I am not that vain whatsoever. I'd just like to be able to wear a normal pair of underwear without having to tuck copious amounts of skin into them first...
spunky70
not sure I am happy with how I look but as I get older maybe
Leejong
It depends on the procedure and what risk is associated with it. I have never gone under the knife, however I have considered it
Adrienne30317592
yes I would - I already dye my hair cause I'm not ready to go grey - it would be a tune up rather than the full monty for me at the moment i'm early 50's alike the way I look and feel - but if that changes and it helps with self esteem and confidence why not - people spend a lot of money on clothing to look good and fit in as well as time on their hair and skin care what's the difference really. I personally prefer to look after myself with good eating habits and exercise BUT I have at least 10 people in my circle that have had permanent stomach banding to lose weight (with varying results) - I was appalled at first BUT then I realised that if it meant they felt better and were healthier, by losing the weight THEN who am I to judge - its up to the individual to decide what is right for them
PGS
I can't believe there is really so many Korean women that need it. Most of the ones I've met over the years have been fine.
But then, Korea is very misogynistic.
If accurate surveys were done of each country, they are probably all within a reasonable % of each other. The hype about how everyone should look does not help.
Some years it's a Barbie Doll / hourglass figure, others it's having a rump the size of a small planet (Kardshian style - I guess some find it attractive, but I'm not sure why).
Be yourself & be happy with what you have.
JenM
Personally no but have no problem with people who do. Like many things it its personal choice.
goanna
Yes, depending if I had a disfigurement but first of all I would get many plastic surgeon opinions before deciding on whether to go under the knife or not.
tyke1929
if I thought it would help me feel better about myself I would not hesitate
al_kitten
If I could afford to do it, i would in a heartbeat. I have looked into the procedure I dream of doing and while it is advertised for around $6000 when I actually paid the $200 consultation fee i was told it will be $17800. Big difference and something I can never afford to do.
Anonymous
No
Violeta
Yes! I had done it before and I would do it again. But for different thing, not the same.
unknown1234
Peronsally I won't. Because there's a certain degree of risk and it often comes with side effects.
MJ21
In my opinion I would not go under the knife for beauty because I have been brought up to believe that beauty is only skin deep and it's whats inside that counts. You are who you are so be happy with it.
MGmegatron
I would never go under the knife for looks because I feel it is fake and you should own what you have. No one should ever make you feel otherwise
Babbles
Yes, I did go 'under the knife' in Thailand at a large hospital.
I had surgery on my upper eyelids.....they were so tired and droopy, and bingo, I love the outcome.
This procedure took place in 2010, and I have never been happier. The staff and medicos were absolutely fantastic, could not speak more highly of them.
loony
True beauty comes from within, As humans we place to much pressure on outer appearances rather than looking at the inner beauty of the person.
shelly47
No I wouldn't go under the knife. The only time I might have plastic surgery is if I was in a bad accident and I was badly disfigured or burnt and I needed some kind of repair to normalise my appearance. I know some people have face lifts because they want to look younger for their work or career but I think it would then become addictive to have more and more.
Keerah1
Yes definitely. When bits start sagging lol and I feel uncomfortable. And if I had the money. For sure I would.
Pania
Yes
blondie12au
Absolutely....I have been under several times now and totally amazed at the beautiful difference it has made. I have had tummy tuck, lipo, upper eyes and breast augmentation. I am next planning on neck and face life. I have just turned 60 and see absolutely nothing wrong with enhancing myself. Even older ladies like to feel beautiful.
GeorgieRose
Yes I would if I felt like it was something that was really upsetting me, but I would have to look at the risks.
Shanti
No!
PGS
Nope. Been naturally ugly for this long, no reason to change it.
Shanti
lol!
sonb4
Yes, I think I might. I've found the ageing process has made my eyelids a bit droopy which makes me look tired, even when i'm not.
PGS
There's an advantage to that - it's not so hard to look tired when you don't want to do something/go somewhere... :)
Every cloud.
***Pottsy***
Unless I was hideously deformed to the point I couldn't breath or eat properly.........no way!
lonestar
I always wished to do so when I was in School, But when I grew up I didn't want anything to change it all- I love the way I am. Unless I am going to become a super model or my career demands I wouldn't go for it.
Clairol19
I personally wouldn't go under the knife for an aesthetic purpose but I can understand why people would. If a person has a feature on their face that saps their confidence and they have the money and capacity to 'fix' it, why not? I do think there needs to be more emphasis on personal acceptance rather than the constant bombardment of 'perfection' in our society though.
PGS
Too often they are 'fixing' things that are not really a problem. When I worked in theatre (surgical), the number of young women (18-25) that came though for boob jobs was ridiculous. In a lot of cases they hadn't finished growing naturally.
For the treatment of a large birthmark in an awkward place, I can understand the need to have it bleached out, but really, not having a Kardashian bum is a blessing.
kitekat
Im happy with me the way I am.Its a personal choice, if I had massive scars or birth defects I would consider it. If your happier improving your looks with surgery and it gives you more confidence,I say go for it if you can afford it. Me Ive earned my wrinkles.
Jhas
No
Migaloo
My wrinkles say l have lived a long life , and a safe life , no l would not go under the knife in the name of beauty .
frannymanny
I think I would. I keep seeing this old lady in the mirror and I would like her to look a little less geriatric.
Pippinella
No, not to be more "beautiful". I think I look just fine, never wanted to look "perfect". It is a shame people are so insecure. They should maybe further their education, get a hobby, maybe some new friends. People have died having plastic surgery, very sad the whole obsession with youth and societies idea of beauty.
jen32
no way
al_kitten
I am going through a mid life crisis as sorts and want nothing more than to go under the knife. Its for something I have been unhappy with since having children. My partner of course says I am perfect for him the way I am but I am doing it for me not him. Actually that said I'm not doing it because after getting a quote it's not happening, $17,000 for crying out load.
Anonymous
I wouldn't go under the knife for bone fixture or enhancement or something. I would to make my skin better though. But I think that's laser anyway...
zeek
no
bearman
I'm not that vain to worry about getting old. Besides when you see people like Joan Collins who look so young in the face but imagine what the rest of the body looks like. Yuck!
Amelia12
I think at my current age, 19, I don't feel like I would, but as I grow older those ideas are probably definitely going to change and I wont like the appearance of myself ageing, so I would consider it.
MacMan
I think this is a very personal decision. I had surgery fairly early in my late teens to improve my ears (pinning them back) and nose (removing a slight ridge), and it dramatically increased my confidence and appearance. Visually these were pretty subtle changes and improved rather than changed my appearance, and I think this is pretty key.
Cosmetic surgery and procedures are much more affordable and accessible than they were 20 years ago, today you can go to your local saloon and get fillers and Botox done at the same time you get your hair cut. But the question that arises, is this a bad thing? Ultimately I think people have the right to choose what they do and like anything use some common sense.
Popular procedures in Korea include double eyelid surgery (which involves the removal or reposition of tissue around the eyelid to open up the eye), V-line jaw reduction (which involves making a small incision and shaving the mandible to give the jawline a slimmer more angular appearance) and rhinoplasty.
This is just a sample of some of the procedures gaining popularity and while some of these procedures seem quiet extreme, you also need to take in some cultural context. Korea is a highly advanced, competitive, image conscious and progressive market, adopting new social and market trends and well before other markets are even in the planning stage. The Australia market by comparison in terms of trend adoption and general consumer market maturity is well behind. So social, cultural or product trends you might see in Korea or more progressive Asian economies don't really find their way into our market for several years if at all.
But even keeping that in mind, you just have to look at the increased number of Australians heading to Asia for cosmetic surgery to see that there is a demand. While more straight forward cosmetic procedures such as Botox and fillers are relatively commonplace. Had you said to someone you were going to a doctor to get botulism toxin injected into your face 20 years ago people would have called you insane, but today these procedures are fairly commonplace.
Ultimately the decision to undergo cosmetic surgery is a very personal choice and really needs to be left up to the individual, if it improves their appearance and self-confidence I really don't see that as a bad thing.
Biancavdm
I would not go under the knife just for beauty. But i would if the was something wrong due to an accident or illness because people can be nasty.
roks
no way it can be dangerous you and your luck
Anonymous
No and hope to never
steff11
No, at this point in my life I would think not. Considering 40% of women get botched surgery and complications.
Angieg
My friend had rhinoplasty because the tip of her nose could be touched with the tip of her tongue, so fair enough - her confidence has been restored despite the post op agony. Personally though, I am so fed up with being bombarded about people's looks ... everyone of us is going to age and I reckon it looks ridiculous when cosmetic surgery is really obvious on an older person. Young people are under so much pressure just having to grow up without vanity being shoved infront of them at every turn.
kaz007
No I wouldn't just for vanity reasons .
namron
No, I would not as for two reasons, beauty is on the inside and there has been mistakes in surgery before with people having plastic surgery. I had surgery relating to skin cancer on my face before and the result is not good.
purpleboo
People say being 'natural' is best but I think it's because they don't have the spare cash to do it.
If they or me had the cash, we'd do it.
I certainly would have a few procedures and ongoing treatments.
Who wouldn't it?
A quote: There are no ugly women, only poor ones..
This was from one of those reality shows that transformed bedraggled, mousy, limp-haired, buck-teethed and overweight women into models.
They were gorgeous after that.
rit
no
Ingi
No. I was born that way and I will stay that way......Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.....and we all see people in a different light. They all have the "something" about them that is hidden underneath but comes out sometimes.
jaxon7au
No way, not even if someone else paid for it. Would be scary enough having an operation or procedure for something that you had to have done.
tassiedev
I went under the knife, and wish I hadnt. I put all my money and trust in a surgeon to give me "perfect breasts" and instead one of them droops and he is trying to get more money to "fix it"
Anonymous
no
Anonymous
NO i never go for that
Anonymous
Appreciates myself of what image I had became was something to accept and appreciated from the perspective of self excepted
frannymanny
I might do it if it was safe and affordable
enzo
no never
Anonymous
Probably not.. there is no part of my body that I am so dissatisfied as to get surgery .. and I am no beauty queen! We give too much importance to outside rather than what's inside these days.. beauty is just skin deep, and I am not that vain..
socker
I would not decide to have an operation to improve my looks as perfection cannot be improved upon.
Jane Yap
I wouldn't think about taking plastic surgery, although I have seen true stories where women really transformed themselves into a totally different gorgeous person (in terms of appearance). But I don't think I need the surgery to make myself beautiful, inner beauty matters the most.
rai
No
KIM123
NO
LAN PHUONG
I haven't had plastic surgery but I really appreciate the one who can afford it or if it is necessary for you in your career.In this case the knife becomes a magic wand that can make you proud and positive beyond the public and especially if you are obliged to challenge to another woman .
Anonymous
certainly not if am fine but if some medical condition requires it than i would take advantage of it
pothum
No way I earnt every one of my wrinkles
Alabs
I have never been under knife for beauty which I will never be
bettythrelfo
If I ended up in a bad accident and it was needed yes, but normally no. these items cost a huge amount, and I see that some people are really not very happy with the results after spending ???? money to do it... I will stay with what I was born with, and just try to do something better with my hair... which is straight, and wont even take a perm...
Burnt Out Digger
I am not keen on plastic surgery for purely cosmetic reasons. however, where some one has been injured and has suffered horrific scarring I think that it is a good idea. I would also support it in cases of people who been born with disfigurements. The cosmetic surgery in these situations can greatly boost a peron's self-confidence.
cindymary
NO. Besides beauty comes from within so if your ugly on the inside no amount of surgery will help you.
Anonymous
I might, i have no problem with people who will find confidence in themselves if they go under the knife. Its their life and their choice i wouldn't mind going under the knife, we all have things we want to change about ourselves.
nangomes
if i have the money to pay for the procedure, i would definately go for it. I am in my mid 50's and it would be nice to look young and wrinkle free.
sarahmaureen17
I would not go under the knife for vain reasons. But if it were for reasons such as disfigurement from an accident, I would.
Aliyaraya
No way if you don't like me the way I am then you are not a true friend or the person that truly cares for me. If I can accept you as you are then you should be able to accept me as I am. I have earned every wrinkle and line and I am proud of them.
vickbenla
Definately not, I have been under the knife to live (double mastectomy from breast cancer) I didnt even get reconstruction, health comes before vanity
Anonymous
I believe that they way in which individuals sees themselves is important, therefore justifying my belief that yes, if I felt insecure about a certain body feature, I would go 'under the knife' to alter it to suit my liking.
saramerc
YES! i have had my boobs done and loving it.
After pregnancy they looked like 2 long wet footy socks.
i was over it.
I am not insane or insecure, infact very confident and outgoing.
i wanted to bring back the volume and that's it.
Putting foreign objects into your body is an old one, so is what we eat 90% of every day.
Risks are part of any surgery and if you are also strapped for cash and needing to finance the op then you shouldn't be doing it.
It is really unfortunate that some women have had complications yet about 95% of these cases are not done with a credited and member of the board of the Australian Society of Plastic Surgeons
Sadly enough many doctors claim themselves to be "cosmetic surgeons" whom are just your local GP as there is NO such thing as a "cosmetic surgeon" will prey on the desperate and gullible which is deplorable.
Certainly there are women who might think that if they have a certain procedure done that it will be life changing for their boyfriends not for themselves.
Any Accredited Plastic Surgeon will not tolerate this attitude and will give the client a psychological assessment on the spot as they are qualified to pick up the signs and know how to deal with this type of behavior.
My girlfriend who has also had her breasts done was told by her doctor who was not for the original procedure that she has breast cancer after a routine mammogram and NOT due to the implants .
The good news was that the implants that were placed on top of the muscle where the tumor was growing had stopped and latched onto the implant because there was no where else to grow.
They saved her life you could say.
Women who scoff at others instead of giving support to their sisters should not be so critical of others , generally the claws come out whenever they see someone attractive, it is a shame that they can't have plastic surgery on their personalities instead.
Anonymous
No
Anonymous
I wouldn't go under the knife. I have always told myself that I will age gracefully. At the end of the day, your skin can only stretch so much and you will eventually have old saggy skin. I know this is a little cliche but for me "beauty starts from within". If it was for a disfigurement of some sort then I completely understand but if they were to go under the knife because they thought they were ugly, then maybe they need to do a little soul searching. I don't know, that's just my opinion.
Monika7
No, would never do under the knife for beauty.
Teka
I have not been but I would if I could afford. :-)
MrsPohara
The thought of going under the knife for any operation puts fear into me. So to put myself through that just in the name of beauty? Nah, just give me some good cosmetics. I think I'd prefer to be 'ugly'.
Anonymous
Yes
saramerc
Yes and i have .
And so happy i did.
I was tired of looking tired and have always liked to look and feel my best and after trying other non invasive treatments that didn't deliver i wanted to something about it for me and no one else and certainly not for the likes of society .
i had my eyelids lifted and the results are awesome.
I can see eyeshadow again along with m eyelashes as i love to wear mascara.
For the small percentage of women who "can't stop", then it is the plastic surgeon's responsibility to asses the patient as there are often more deeper underlying issues going on.
I really think it would be nicer if women who condemn this sort of thing should show a bit more sisterhood towards each other and offer a little support.
Men on the other hand do not need to bother in keeping up appearances because they see each other as equal and i never hear them squawk about the way someone else looks behind their back.
Instead they often are overheard how great they look.
Men don't compare themselves like women do.
As long as media will be around and as long as we keep buying their magazines plastic surgery will thrive for good and bad reasons.
Anonymous
No once you get to a certain age i think a lot of us realise thats just how we now look and learn to accept it, and after having 4 kids and am 46 i think well whats the point in trying to look like someone im not
Anonymous
If you're that way inclined I guess you should go for it. Personally I would never do such a thing, I'm a firm believer in being all natural. I mean it doesn't matter how much money you have, how pretty you are etc. Because at the end of the day, the casket will still be the same size.
Anonymous
no I don't believe this
Anonymous
I would really love a nose job hahaha oh gosh so bad
Anonymous
I would not go under the knife in the name of beauty. Why? Because we are created as God image and by going under the knife, we basically disagrees with our image and what God has created. Going under the knife to look pretty is not the best idea, there are many questions to be asked before doing so, such as What happen when you get old? or What is the after effects?. If someone wants to look pretty, I think it is better to go to a dermatologists or use a skincare product that are world-know or world's number 1 or go to a beauty salon and ask for make-up tutorial. There are many things you should consider before going under the knife in the name of beauty.
Anonymous
Definitely not!! I am really uneasy with the whole being cut up process! I have watched family and friends all choose the path of the knife, and it really didn't seem to make them any happier or nicer people. The complete opposite sometimes, they became a little conceated. I will just keep sucking it up, and work on being healthy, There are always exceptions, and my 25 year old daughter is just that, having her body in proportion has helped her to become a healthy and delightful person. But for me, no knife! No way!
chancepoppy
Yes i would but I wouldnt go over board maybe just a boob job. I definitely would have it done if i was financially set up in life.
annie
I would not go under the knife for any beauty procedure.
IanMutz
It depends on what the problem is. If I had ears that stuck straight out or had a very large nose, I would definitely consider surgery.
Anonymous
I have never had surgery for beauty reasons and I don't think I would. I think you should just be happy with the body you have or work out to get a body your happy with. Although I do understand that some people do have trouble to loose weight etc. I have had friends that had really big boobs and they had to get them reduced as they were so big they had back, neck and shoulder problems. It really depends the person.
MummaBee
I would not go under the knife unless it was medically necessary.
Zahra
I don't , because I rather natural beauty
Anonymous
No, take me as I am or leave!
titchycats
I personally wouldn't go under the knife, however I support anyone's decision to change their outer beauty if they feel it doesn't match their inner beauty. If you're not happy with yourself to a point where you want it changed, then I say go for it. I personally just wouldn't.
mausy
Never.. I'm too old now.. and too many horror stories...!! Probably should have..lol.. What a nose.!!.. Ahh well.. it's me...!!
Kimmie66
I would be too afraid of the risks to actually undergo plastic surgery. I probably would if I had been in an accident. I also have heavily considered breast implants as I have a very flat chest but I'm worried it would look unnatural.
Anonymous
I would never go under the knife to change my appearance for any one, I believe that the image media is trying to get across to everyone if far from 'prefect' for people to believe that they must look a certain way to be consider "attractive" is outrages! all those so call "beautiful people" that go under the knife for what ever reason just because "their image" may look what they think is beautiful doesn't make them a good person. To me it shouldn't matter how you look, if you are a kind, thoughtful, honest, open minded and caring person then you are beautiful. people really need to stop thinking that everything is about appearance!
Anonymous
Yes, totally! If your unhappy about something about yourself and there's a way to change that and be happy why not, it's not for anyone to judge but yourself, you only live once and if fixing something about yourself or improving yourself is going to make you happier in life then seriously why not!
Anonymous
I would only go under the knife if it was something causing major problems in my life. People should be happy with how they are born not make themselves into plastic.
Anonymous
No I would not go under the knife. I personally think that going under the knife is absolutely ridiculous because it's makes a woman look as if they are young when really their age doesn't state it.
Freedomy
I love watching beautiful men and woman of the world. I have just seen about 50 photos being taken of people around the world. The camera was so good, every wrinkle was shown, there was no detail missed. And it gave so much character to the face, told of hard times, struggles, wonderful smiles where the lines along the forehead are emphasised. And then I see this question.
I often wondered do I think so poorly of going under the knife because I don't have the cash to do it, or am I scared of the wrong outcome, but after seeing these photos - I just don't want to be afraid of growing up. I don't want my physical beauty to be compromised. I want my wrinkles, sunspots and all the nooks and crannies to go with it. I am a proud woman but I simply don't want to be taken in my this need to see physical beauty going under the knife.
And then I wonder as my years go on, and I turn 60, will I be one of the few that looks 60 when all my 60 year old friends look 30, 40 or even 50 and so be it. I love physical beauty but I also love that I am cool with what age is - a progression in life and I don't want that cut off.
Joh :)
No way. God gave us this body and we should be proud of it. Not change something that he wanted us to have.
kez01
only if i really had to have to go under the knife for something that i need doing
Missannie
The answer is no, the only time l would is for medical reasons , not to be a fake plastic person. I say get over yourself and think of the people living on the streets
Anonymous
Everyone is different but for me it would depend on what the reason for me going under the knife. But if it was for a personal reason i would have gone under the knife
Anonymous
I would consider it. I would consider getting my breasts enlarged. I don't have a very big cup size at all and I think it would give me the boost of confidence that I need
Anonymous
I have been put under for beauty when i was 14 i had a jaw reconstruction they class that as plastic surgery best thing iv ever done results are amazing
dllooney
no way!! I just had a tooth implant done, cost a bomb and hurt like hell. could not enjoy eating for months . At times that I did not wear my fake tooth, I realise true friends do not care how u look or smile..its all about whether u being confident about urself ,be it with or without tooth, perfect or imperfect, true friends don't judge, they accept
A-Karin
Would I go under the knife . . .? I have trouble getting brave enough for essential surgery so at this point in my life .. . .no. but when gravity is in full swing? Who knows?
stevieerose
I personally wouldn't. There are other ways to change your appearance without going to these lengths such as exercise, diet, makeup etc. I think it shouldn't matter what you look like and it's not about changing the thing you don't like but becoming comfortable with it and excepting it. I also believe there are much more important issues in the world so why waste money, time and effort trying to change something like your appearance...
Anonymous
No I am what I am and nothing is going to reverse the aging process. Age is beauty and I like it.
pich
yes
Xjessthebestx2
Only if it was for good reason....
Anonymous
No I would not, I think everyone has perfections and that doesn't really matter
steelbacchus
I have to go under the knife for health reasons and I'm having second, third and fourth thoughts about that. Never would I do it for the sake of vanity.
ninna
I would love to have a bust reduction, being a DDD cup it is a lot of extra weight on your shoulders & once you develop arthritis in the shoulders & neck is becomes painful. Would be nice to have a smaller bust where I can get normal bras & not have to shop around to find my size, would also be nice to be able run around with the kids without such a bouncy set of boobs. I have had to wear bras all my life & when I was pregnant sizing was almost at the stage of having to get them made.
I had what they call plastic surgery many years ago to have a large plate inserted into my forehead where they had to remove the bone for brain surgery after an accident but it still is not the same as it was before the op & it was an absolute necessity. Fortunately they used a new technique & the only scar I have is hidden in my hair so only the hair dresser has to see it.
So yeah I would undergo cosmetic surgery for that purpose or to remove excess skin for those who lose a huge amount of weight & are left with unsightly loose skin which will never shrink naturally. I would never consider having cosmetic work done on my face just out of vanity, wrinkles add character to yr face & tell a story all of their own. Take care of your skin while you are young & you reap the benefits when you get to my age, I rarely wore makeup when I was younger & always made sure it came off at the end of the day if I had to use it. A good moisturiser with SPF & a good routine as well as diet will help your skin age better.
piggiemel
for certain i would not go through the knife in the name of beauty. there are other methods and alternatives to look beautiful. the most effective would be applying makeup for an illusion for a bigger eyes, slimmer face, high toned cheekbones and full lips. daily personal grooming is essential to get into the habit of looking good every day. hope this helps!
Freedomy
Oh how have we grown in technology and lowered our confidence levels to looking like plastic. I don't know whether to shout for joy or shout what the hell, wake up.
You were born one way. Deal with. Use the AA statement. Lord grant me the wisdom to change what can be changed and not fight what cannot be changed and to know the difference between the two. Okay so I am not from AA but it does go something like that.
If you cannot change it, then don't pay someone thousands to do so. If boob job gives you confidence, what does that say about you? A nose job changed everything, what does that say about you? All I am saying is people who love you, don't see you for your boobs, your nose or a wrinkle or two.
We know who we can rely on, who lies, who we can party with, who keeps our secrets, who is on our side. We know who the bitch is, who is the expert with guys or girls and who are the toughies, the nerds or the geeks. We do use she is pretty, he is handsome but these are not the traits we rely on.
I feel so sad that young girls and now men are getting gift cards or graduation presents at the plastic surgeons. All I am saying is resist. You don't have to because others are. This is one of our dilemmas. And because we never see wrinkles anymore, I love mine and those on others. But wrinkless or not that is not what I would rely on you for.
PGS
I'm male, but what you see is what it is. All genuine parts. Hair going, doesn't matter. Saves $ when it's all gone. Tad overweight - still healthy enough for it to only matter to the Dr.
Nat
I am considering have a breast reduction but it's only partly beauty related. I am an F cup and I always feel like I look fat but as I get older they are getting saggier and starting to cause me back, neck and shoulder problems too. The thought of having a knife in my breasts is scaring me though.
Ally
No, never. We are born who we are, even if we have imperfections. The old adage "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" allows everyone to be seen as beautiful. Besides looks will disappear in time.....whereas inner 'beauty' is lasting. It's better to be a beautiful person inside and through your actions.
RRM
GOOD TOPIC TO DISCUSS :)
Not in the name of beauty, definitely not! People forget about a little thing called "ageing gracefully" and we don't have to look far to see this. Julia Roberts, Duchess of Cambridge Kate Middleton, Sarah Jessica Parker, Cameron Diaz...These are examples of those who refuse to be defined by what our society tells us to be and do, and just 'be'. It's an insult to our creator to change the way we look, anyway. We aren't meant to be young forever.
Anonymous
No!
rajanakl
hell no...everyone is beautiful in there own way.minor adjustments or enhancements such as botox is okay other than its not worth the risk
Bellajoy
I truly don't think there's anything *wrong* with people having cosmetic surgery or other procedures (botox, etc.) if it's something that's really important to them.
Anonymous
NO. I would never go under the knife because in the end , the way you see wouldn't change
Sarah17
No, unless something had happened to me (e.g. burns) or it was helpful for my health
connie
no never
Anonymous
I wouldn't go under the knife unless it was after a big accident or the result benefited my health. We were given these bodies for a reason and they shouldn't be transformed into mr potato men, picking and choosing what features we want at the time.
Kasa
Not sure, would like the result but not sure of the process
kit
This is a very personal issue for anyone. However, I believe any surgery should be very carefully researched, including the doctors and hospital to be certain it is absolutely what is needed.
I went under the knife, but not for beauty! To save my life.....!
Depending on how you view it, I did have a major breast reduction, by 6 sizes. It was essential after my huge (160kg ) weight loss and what a relief! No more aching back.
I have numerous scars on my body and had considered plastic surgery as they did bother me a lot, and my partner was not happy with them, insisting they be covered.
Once I found out the cost here to have them removed/changed, I changed my mind. Partner left!
To go overseas -anywhere- is not an option as I have seen a few people who went to Asia for theirs and the results were not pretty, cost more to have them fixed once the problems were seen, and one could not be fixed the damage was so bad.
AnneLMcArthur
No actually I wouldn't. Happy with how I look. :D
Anonymous
As a beauty therapist, I fully agree on peoples decisions on getting plastic surgery if it makes you feel better go for it, you just need to do your research the doctor and there hygiene ect, before you go under the knife.
Dora
No. Not not just for the sake of beauty. I am very happy with the way I am.
Nikkii
YES haha most definitely i would, if only i could afford it.
Ol
I think this demonstrates the pressures women face in today's self-conscious society. Everywhere, we can see models of perfection in the latest fashions and sporting the new trends, and only the beautiful people stroll the red carpets in size 0 outfits. I think the question is not 'Would you or have you been under the knife in the name of beauty?', but would you or have you been under the knife in the name of conformity to social pressures and expectations?
mynamesmisty
Yes I would get plastic surgery if I really wanted it.
pilelc
No, there is nothing better than natural beauty.
Anonymous
I like the thought of it - not necessarily because I am vain or anything, but because I would like to look my best - of course I try to stay out of the sun and eat healthy, but I think that it really is an easier option...spend your life trying to look good vs spend a few thousand and a couple of days to achieve the same result!!
Anonymous
Of course I wouldn't .
It's terribly harmful to both body and soul so I won't take the risk of being disfigured at the cost of being a beauty.
People are different for their appearances so It's no need to change what we look like and just enjoy what we are.
topgirl76
no
Anonymous
I would go under the knife if I felt strongly about changing I'm image, there will always be something you want to change about yourself to feel confident in your own skin. We get criticised for the way we dress, the way we look, the way we act and then what we do to be an individual. If you have then money and courage to do so then why let peoples opinion stop you!
Anonymous
I would go under the knife if I felt strongly about changing I'm image, there will always be something you want to change about yourself to feel confident in your own skin. We get criticised for the way we dress, the way we look, the way we act and then what we do to be an individual. If you have then money and courage to do so then why let peoples opinion stop you!
socker
Deffinitely not. The only reason is if I was extreemly disfigured by an accident as with every operation there is a certain amount of dandger involved
Anonymous
No I like how I am. However in saying this in certain circumstances whether it be through illness, accidental I may need plastic surgery and I would consider it if needed.
annezane
NO WAY however someone had a birthmark or burn scar then I would understand but for vanity absolutely not, I don't even believe in botox
Anonymous
I would never, even if I was the ugliest person on Earth.. It's completely unnatural and it's risky, and most of the time it makes it worse rather than fixing it..
Anonymous
I have, and would again. Having surgery is safe and fairly commonplace, you should be able to change your appearance if you want to.
Anonymous
Plastic surgery is apparently quite common in Korea, which I have been told by my Korean friends. It's mostly those minor surgeries such as getting eyelids kind of thing. I personally wouldn't go under the knife in the name of beauty, unless I was in some sort of accident.
Anonymous
Plastic surgery is apparently quite common in Korea, which I have been told by my Korean friends. It's mostly those minor surgeries such as getting eyelids kind of thing. I personally wouldn't go under the knife in the name of beauty, unless I was in some sort of accident.
antzy
No, I wouldn't, unless I had a deformity, or an accident, or if I had an illness.
And especially after going to Seoul twice, seeing how vain they are and how into plastic surgery they are, it made me even less willing to have plastic surgery.
Anonymous
I would, just to make my self confidence higher. i hate the way i look after having a baby.
diann
I have now just turned 40 and because I spent a lot of my youth in the sun, I feel my skin is very damaged and looking very old. If I had the money I would get minor surgery. It is vain yes, but I just want to look my age at least.
Anonymous
I had the opportunity to have facial dermabrasion several years back to fix acne scars, but the cost and the discomfort factors put me off. I do not regret that YET but this may change as I get older and my looks (which were never that great) fade. There are always going to be little things I'm dissatisfied with about myself but being useful and valued is not the same as being pretty.
Anonymous
I have considered it. I am 52 and looking a little worse for wear. However when push comes to shove, I don't think I will. It's very expensive and no matter how much I spend, I can't look 25 again. Also, I a bit frightened about the health risks, so on balance I'd say it's not worth it.
Han.charlotte
I definitely wouldn't make any major changes, especially to my face, I think its really important to embrace who we are. However, I have naturally larger breasts and I expect them to head south in a major way as I age or have children, I'm not opposed to the idea of a little lift. I think that if that is what is going to make you feel sexy and confident, then go for it, these days we have so many means of fulfilling our desires and how we want to look, I don't think anyone should be judged for pursuing that self confidence.
Anonymous
No I will never ever go under knife to change my original look unless I met with an horrible accident and which requires me to go for a plastic surgery. I believe to judge a people by their inner beauty rather their outer beauty.
zavrah
Changing the outside does not change the inside, if you are unhappy with yourself before surgery you would sure be unhappy after too. People need to learn to love themselves for who they are and stop worrying about everyone else's opinions. If someone doesn't love you for who you are you do not need them in your life!
jacko456
only if i had an accident that destroyed my personal appearance i would
yupita
No, I have natural beauty and have no need for plastic surgery, btw eventually that kind of fake beauty will wear off with time and it will be horrible.
Anonymous
Depending on what part of the body, boob jod for me definately but facelift no
Ingi
I would not go under the knife for pure vanity, I was born as a certain individual and will remain so. If I had a disfigurement e.g. a large nose or a huge wart on my face that was detrimental and in the way of normal eating etc. I would consider it. We I believe are all individuals and have a certain 'beauty' anyway. Unless one was in a car crash and had a huge disfigurement then I would but not for vanity alone.
amanda515
Yes
amanda515
Yes
Anonymous
No
Anonymous
i'd never try to impress some else just because they want me to be that way or even impress myself to the extent of plastic surgery. From my opionion i think plastic surgery is life-risking and legit not worth it.
Anonymous
No never
Anonymous
I have been under the knife, twice now, I have had breast implants and liposuction and as well as labiaplasty.
Anonymous
I would go under the knife I see no problem in doing it if you have the money go for it,
Ali1959
No
Anonymous
I think if I felt insecure enough in my body I possibly would, although that insecurity would have to cancel out the fear of surgery.
My younger sister has recently had breast implants, she's 23. If anything to me, it just seems superficial, but if she wanted it enough who are to judge her?
mapache
Not just to be beautiful, but maybe as others if I had serious scars from an accident or some form of otherwise uncontrollable disfigurement then I would possibly consider it.
Sil sil
I would get plastic surgery on any part of my body that turkey makes me feel sad ugly & unhappy. If I've tried everything else & surgery is the only option to fix it & I could do it I would.
sunshine09
boo
Anonymous
No, I think it's dangerous.
Anonymous
I think its a decaying society where women need to go on under the knife to artifically make up for their natural shortcomings.
silversoul
No I don't believe that I would at this stage in my life
Anonymous
Personally I would never have plastic surgery because I'm a firm believer in being natural and embracing the qualities you've been given. In saying that I think in circumstances where someone is in pain or is suffering after a severe accident where they'd feel more comfortable having the surgery, I would think that'd be for the best.
kopisurvey
no
Clair
In my personal opinion, I would not go under knife in the name of beauty because i believe that natural beauty is more important. And going through plastic surgeries may have a bad effect on your body.
Anonymous
Personally going under the knife simply for beauty does not appeal to me. We were made the way we are for a reason. I think there are some conditions that cause a person much embarrassment or annoyance that they would get an operation to sort it out but I think if it simply for beauty caused by great vanity then it is unnecessary. The body is made as it is for a reason, personally I would not change my faults by getting an operation, it does not appeal to me.
Anonymous
it depends on what it was for and how major of a procedure it is
ralph48
Yes, I would. I admit I have low self esteem and lived through how people look at me - like that....
Anonymous
yes i would and have! there is nothing wrong with making an adjustment if it will make you more confident
Anonymous
Yes I would, but only for a breast augmentation, as that is the only thing I would like to get done. I don't have an issue with the rest of my appearance. I would never go full plastic like lips/chin/cheek etc.
Anonymous
Yes on body part not on my face just incase,within reason and If I can afford the best surgeon.
Anonymous
As a young woman heading into a world where the media is dominating and shaping people's aspects, I often feel pressured to "look" as good as women within magazines. Although it is nice to say that "looks don't matter," in reality, looking ravishing is a big part of our society. Magazines are covered in beauty products, fashion as well as perfect looking women - and with that at bay, I have often questioned myself as to whether I would go under the knife. And the scary fact is, is that I probably would despite the health risks associated.
Anonymous
As a young woman heading into a world where the media is dominating and shaping people's aspects, I often feel pressured to "look" as good as women within magazines. Although it is nice to say that "looks don't matter," in reality, looking ravishing is a big part of our society. Magazines are covered in beauty products, fashion as well as perfect looking women - and with that at bay, I have often questioned myself as to whether I would go under the knife. And the scary fact is, is that I probably would despite the health risks associated.
Anonymous
As a young woman heading into a world where the media is dominating and shaping people's aspects, I often feel pressured to "look" as good as women within magazines. Although it is nice to say that "looks don't matter," in reality, looking ravishing is a big part of our society. Magazines are covered in beauty products, fashion as well as perfect looking women - and with that at bay, I have often questioned myself as to whether I would go under the knife. And the scary fact is, is that I probably would despite the health risks associated.
Kcady
I agree. I know we are never happy with how we look, but I could never alter my body in that way. Unless of course line you've all said due to disfigurement of some sort I would consider it but not because my lips aren't big enough or my nose 'doesn't look like hers'. Besides, people who've had plastic surgery all tend to start looking the same
Anonymous
yes i would if it makes a person feel better about themselves
Emat
No, beauty is what we are born with and it should not be adjusted with
Em3007
Never. Not because I have no problem with my looks- I think most people would have physical attributes that they wish were different. My main issue is that once you change your face or your body, you've lost ownership of yourself. It's no longer YOU, YOUR face, YOUR stomach, YOUR breasts. If you change yourself too much your body becomes meaningless and pointless: an attractive, non-descript entity that pleases the eye but has no owner.
Em3007
Never. Not because I have no problem with my looks- I think most people would have physical attributes that they wish were different. My main issue is that once you change your face or your body, you've lost ownership of yourself. It's no longer YOU, YOUR face, YOUR stomach, YOUR breasts. If you change yourself too much your body becomes meaningless and pointless: an attractive, non-descript entity that pleases the eye but has no owner.
Rads
Personally I would go under a knife and have been operated on my leg as I was born with club foot and had number of surgeries so going under a knife as cosmetically I would one day just to experience how to be with perfect legs.
salehi
no, I only in necessary and urgent will time will go under surgery and for plastic surgery never
Nani84
no
Anonymous
the beauty comes not from outside,but from inside...
Anonymous
The natural beauty is the best...
Anonymous
I would only go under the knife in the name of beauty if I had some hideous facial defect
Anonymous
I havent been 'under the knife' in the name of beauty. I definatly have had strong thoughts and wants to change certain this about my body, however in the back of my mind have the fear of the unknown going wrong or not being happy after spending all that money with the changes. I am definatly not one that judges on people that do get work done, i believe that it is a personal choice and if they feel as if it is something they wish to do then i say go for it!
Anonymous
No I don't go
Anonymous
I don't think anyone should go under the knife in the name of beauty. Age gracefully!
Anonymous
I would love to get breast implants and if i had the money i would even look buttock implants. I am quite self concience of both..
Anonymous
i would
bellalea
no i would not go under the knife, you need to accept your body warts and all, its just a part of getting older.
beswicklj
No way - I'm not undergoing surgery and/or anaesthetic unless absolutely necessary.
Anonymous
Not a chance! The risk of something going wrong and being permanently disfigured scares the hell out of me! Your born a certain way, im not happy with all aspects of my appearance but id rather work on it naturally if possible than have myself enhanced at the risk of further damage
Anonymous
Yes I would if I could afford it.
Anonymous
I personally would never go under the knife though I would never judge someone who has or is going to. each to their own. i believe in a healthy diet where others believe in looking better.
Anonymous
I would not go under the knide in the name of beauty because i can get the same results with make up and without looking fake!
Anonymous
no
gmamac
I don't really see it as going under the knife in the name of beauty": I think it is for quite a few going under the knife" to like yourself" no I haven't had any procedures (yet) due to financial reasons but hope to in the future. I know people who have and they are much happier for it. It is a very personal thing and yes there are vain people out there, but ets look at the bigger picture.
Anonymous
I would if it was a reasonable price and something that really bothered me
Anonymous
I would get plastic surgery if I had the extra cash and felt that insecure about a part of me. I don't believe it to be vain to want to get plastic surgery. I believe people get plastic surgery because of insecurities and if altering her appearance will help feel more secure, confident and happy as a person then why not? It seems so ridiculous to me that some people are so rude about plastic surgery.
I must say though, at the end of the day it is an expensive, quick solution to something more complicated that it initially appear.
rochelle1043
i wouldn't go have it though it may help some people but i recommend a certain limit as it can be harmful and emotionally unhealthy.
Anonymous
I wouldn't but I can understand why some would, really up to the person and just how bad they feel they need plastic surgery.
I have had exstensive dental work and have to say it changed my whole face, seemed I got younger after my surgey due to being able to smile properly.
jennyclarkson
yes if I could afford to
Anonymous
It is a common thing for products to advertise "no artificial colours or flavours" because 1 people find them unhealthy and 2 because the product is so delicious it does not need to be artificially coloured or flavoured. I believe humans are the same. Dress us up, paint our faces but don't artificially mess with our genetics because we were formed exactly how we were meant to be.
Anonymous
i haven't and will most likely not ever have plastic surgery just because i think that everyone was made uniquely and that shouldn't be changed.
Pasq
I would not go under the knife in the name of beauty. In this day in age there are so many beauty products that can help delay the aging process. For example, I have been using Cindy Crawfords " Meaningful Beauty" products for two and a half years now and I have noticed an improvement in my skin and I look younger today than I did 6 years ago.
Anonymous
I wouldnt go under the knife, unless in case of severe disfigurement from an injury or accident.
I see a woman on the train each morning, and she is done up perfectly, and would look pretty except for the obvious facial plastic surgery - no-one past their 30's has NO lines on their face!
If you do have facial surgery for example, you loose the lines etc gained through living.
Anonymous
No, i havent been but i definiately would consider it. I feel like in modern day society women are trying to maintain their youth insted of showing their age. i personally would consider cosmetic surgery treatments both invasive and non invasive to preserve my youth which would boost my confidence.
killy
No I don't think I would go under the knife. In my opinion, it is very drastic to do this...we were made to grow old, that's life.
Doryy
Well I am planning to go under the knife and get a nose job, my opinion is that if you are not happy with your looks change them, you can't live your life being unhappy about one thing that can be changed.
JT68
Off course I would not. It's against my principal
elfie
If I was completely dissatisfied with my face - and if i could afford it, I probably would. But I would find it a bit regretful because you would never know what you would look like when you get older and you may be labelled vain for going through with it.
Anonymous
Noway, never!
Anonymous
I personally would not go under the knife for the name of beauty because I believe loving who you are physically and mentally is so important and whilst there may still be aspects that we want to change about ourselves accepting your flaws is apart of accepting the person you are.
dojo
Not for anything! People need to stop trying to look some one else or younger. Grow old and lined gracefully. It is a privilege to get older. Not a lot of people get the chance.
Anonymous
Personally I think everyone is born beautiful in there own way. But if someone is unhappy or wanting to change a part of themselves why not? I would if i had that certain income but nothing serious. Maybe a nose job, make my lips bigger or ever a boob job. But I also think people wouldn't go to far and not look like themselves anymore. Because everyone just wants to be themselves but maybe a little more confident.
Merrilee
Yes
Anonymous
Nup no way! Being under the knife can be addictive if this is a way to look beautiful. Do you want a natural look? Or do you prefer not to recognise yourself in the mirror with these disfigured fake features.
Such role model is Lord Voldemort.
You may obtain the plastic or the skin you live in, its always your choice mate.
Anonymous
never, to be beautiful is to be natural, not what society dubs as being 'beautiful'.
dingolady
No not for vanity, I would rather grow old gracefully. It is after all a privilege to grow old not everyone is lucky enough to.
Anonymous
No I would never go under the knife, I don't see why I should change myself just to go out and please other people just because of the way I look.
Anonymous
I haven't but i have a list of thing id love to do, First would be my boobs, 2 a tummy tuck, 3 my nose a bit smaller on the sides
stouty
well at first i thougt no but turning 50 would not mind a boob lift not bigger just lifting probably silly really i suppose we should all grow old gracefully but maybe not
wildlife
Definitely not
Anonymous
Personally i wont go under knife in the name of beauty, coz i feel natural beauty is the best and most important is internal beauty
tana
Personally I wouldn't I believe that my body is meant to look this way. And I should be happy about my body, let alone me being born.
Anonymous
I would but only if it was something I felt strongly about or had a problem with. I'd find another solution if possible though before heading for plastic surgery and would 100% do research.
Anonymous
i wouldnt personally the only reason i would is if it had to be done for medical reasons
Anonymous
Yes I would love a Mummy makeover. It would make me feel more comfortable in my own skin.
Anonymous
I have recently had plastic surgery on my bottom to make my bum look more appealing to females .
Bekka60
No i wouldnt. You look the way you do for a reason. and when you have kids they will look how you did before you went under the knife.
Chrissy007
I have thought about it but havent yet. If I had the money I probably would :-)
Anonymous
I definitely would but I would go South Korea to get it done. It's the land of plastic surgery. Sure, I might look like everyone else on the street, but as long as I like it, who cares?
Anonymous
I have always said that i would never have plastic surgery for the "perfect" face or body. But now that i'm getting older and the wrinkles are more visible if i could afford it i would definitely consider a face lift.
bhuntu
No, I am very strict regarding this.. Natural beauty matters me most..
Anonymous
yes
blues clues
Yes I would , especially if it also meant for a health reason ,
Anonymous
I am happy with my body but I would love to get rid of my wrinkles on my face but don't think the risks are worth it, plus the cost involved and time off work, could I afford it?
Bec
No I would not do it for vanity, imagine if I woke up and looked like that awful cat woman - horrific! I would only do it if I had had an accident and need reconstruction.
Lenmontano
I understand there are women who are willing to take all the risks for beauty's sake, but I am still a believer of natural beauty.
DeNiro
If you feel that it would make a significant difference to your self-esteem then go for it! But be realistic. It won't make the object of your unrequited love any more interested, nor will it solve any other relationship problems. I had a nose job nearly 40 years ago and have never regretted it. My nose is now smaller and straighter which means that I can wear short hair without my nose dominating my face.
Kikkja
I would but not for drastic surgery. I consider having botox to get rid of small lines around my eyes or forehead. I would as a former breast cancer survivor consider having breast augumentation and in the process an increase in breast size; however I would not have silicone implants, I get the fat sucked out of my butt & thighs and replaced into my breasts. It seems safer. Maybe when I am older I'd consider having some fillers. But that is as far as I would go.
coca
no I would not. It does not last long, besides being a worker in the surgical world, I've seen so many things have gone wrong that it is difficult to correct the complications., and the pain associated with it? Only those who suffered can answer that. When it come to beauty it is up to the on- looker and the owner of that body /face can decide if that is beauty or nor. it also needs the brain to see and decide about beaty.
Anonymous
Not right now, i would however, consider it in years to come. Being ashamed or embarrassed with your features can really diminish your self confidence. The way i see things is, if it makes you feel better about yourself then do it
lailou
I am currently waiting for my nose to be done after having it broken while being attacked by a man and very happy to have it done. There is 2 reasons for this 1 reason is because I can not breath properly the way it is. 2nd reason is because it is very noticeably crooked. Call it vanity if you like but if I don't have to live with a bad nose I'm not going to. My sunglasses do not sit right and causes headaches because of it. So I guess there are many reasons to get this done but even if it was purely for looks I would probably still have it done. So I guess I have to say I am more then willing to go under the knife for so called beauty although I would never be classed as a BEAUTY even with plastic surgery. Paying for it though is entirely a different matter. I would not pay those outrageous prices for the sake of looking a little better:)
coca
in this case it is sensible and reasonable to go under the knife as it is for necessary reason not for vanity. I do agree with you, You need good breathing device(airway) to live properly otherwise in the long run u will suffer heath related... and yehhh crook nose is no good.
suzienewbury7
I have thought about it, but decided against it, simply because I wanted to see whether I could change the situation by myself with careful diet and exercise
annie
No I would not go under the knife for any reason
Anonymous
I probably would not because I am just too afraid of surgery and something going wrong.
Plus I like to look like myself in the mirror and recognise myself.
Anonymous
I wouldn't do it - cos I think we are what we are and also im too scared about the negative side effects and dangers involved - but each to their own
Anonymous
No way! Thats what make up is for, we are all born beautiful and shouldn't alter ourself just to be selfish.
Anonymous
Hair implants for men seem to have come a long way since I first saw them being done. As a man who is starting to lose his hair, this is something i would seriously consider, obviously dependent on budget
Anonymous
i wouldnt because im happy with who i am and how i look. sometimes i think we forgot that attractiveness are in people who are interesting and interesting people are almost always pretty.
plus there are health risks in plastic surgery
Mel - mel
Personally I would never go under the knife in the name of "beauty". I believe everyone if beautiful in their own unique ways and if they feel the need to change that with plastic surgery that's their decision. But I find it rather stupid.
Minaki
A lot of Korean women do plastic surgery to make them look less Asian - more European.
The only reason I would go under the knife is for disfigurement, not to look like anyone else or for anti ageing, as there are many other non-surgical procedures to keep you looking good such as lasers, non-surgical facelifts etc.
LSJ
Never for cosmetic reasons - eventually everyone who does need more cosmetic procedures to cover up the former procedures. I say eat well, keep fit, avoid sun damage & therefore grow old gracefully, not plastically.
Anonymous
In today's world, there is more pressure to go to newer and more drastic measures in the name of beauty. As a young 20 year old person I feel that I would have to say that I have definitely considered it. The only thing holding me back would be the cost and how long the process would take and the risks involved. There are also certain things I would and wouldn't do and I think that once I got to a certain point in my life, it wouldn't worry me as much any more because we all get older and changes happen because of that. I guess that although it is something I have considered, I probably won't actually do it. Sport and exercise are much better options for me.
Anonymous
In today's world, there is more pressure to go to newer and more drastic measures in the name of beauty. As a young 20 year old person I feel that I would have to say that I have definitely considered it. The only thing holding me back would be the cost and how long the process would take and the risks involved. There are also certain things I would and wouldn't do and I think that once I got to a certain point in my life, it wouldn't worry me as much any more because we all get older and changes happen because of that. I guess that although it is something I have considered, I probably won't actually do it. Sport and exercise are much better options for me.
Anonymous
no eat healthy, exercise and face cream lol
petschoice
no but would like to , esp. for a bust uplift.
Rima
no
Go-anna
No I wouldn't there again as many have said for a disfigurement or for medical reasons yes I would consider it. Real beauty comes from within the skin is just a covering.
Anonymous
yes, if i want to be beautiful, plastic surgery is the most efficient and direct way to achieve my desire. Inner beauty is admirable but the chance is little if you dont look very attractive from the outside image.
beachnanny
If someone would do it complimentary.. yes!
I also believe that some people do benefit from something in looks that has made them uncomfortable all their lives.
I know someone who had a super large nose and could understand their decision. However later in life there has been breathing difficulties from the initial operation.
I do believe some operations are unnecessary and people do become addicted to the knife, how scary.
It really is a very personal choice and up to the individual
kess
Thirty years ago I had a nose job - best thing I ever did. Had once been called "the beak" even though my nose wasnt really that bad and that stayed with me so when I found I could get it changed very cheaply (those were the days!!) I jumped at the chance and have never ever regretted it.
Anonymous
I would never undergo surgery to change my look. I was created this way & you have to accept your imperfections. They say what humbles you strengthens you.
If everyone had surgery to make themselves the 'dream' person they want to be, we would all be a bunch of boring selfish people.
I only think it is appropriate when you have a had massive disfiguration cause by a horrific accident, that is when it would be useful.
Jess
I definitely would
Anonymous
No, I don't see what good it would do, it's unnatural
Anonymous
No
Jonda
No. I am a very strong believer that beauty is not what you see but what lies under. Physical beauty is only skin deep, rather true beauty should encompass all aspects of one's personality traits, hence i would not even consider going under the knife in the name of beauty. I would maintain what God in His wisdom molded me to be.
Lollipops
I think society puts too much pressure on women especially. It's all about keeping up appearances looking younger than you are . From my view society seems to have forgotten that age in itself is beauty too, but perhaps my perception at current is a bit romantic, and maybe with time it will change but maybe I'm not fit to speak on such a topic just yet being currently still in the very throes of my youth,though currently I myself would not be inclined to surgically enhance my body and would rather lean towards ageing gracefully.
Anonymous
no i would not
unless it was medicaly required, just age gracefully
dale_k
no way! i wouldn't do any surgery. i think its not tight to change what God has given to you.be thankful instead because when we get older physical beauty is useless..its the inner beauty that remains,so better change in inner attitude rather than worrying how we look physically.
Anonymous
No because a huge part of attraction is confidence.
And I feel that in order to have true and unconditional confidence you must love yourself. Not something which someone else has created.
Peggy
No. Though I did consider getting a double eye lid procedure done, the thought of surgery just makes my skin crawl. I'd be too scared to do it!
cin
no and I never will
sassy
To be honest if it needed to be done for medical reasons, then yes it's ok,but if you just what to improve your looks because you think your not beautiful enough then your just being silly. Because everyone is beautiful in there own way.
Anonymous
i would never go under the knife to make myself look supposedly prettier, everyone is beautiful in there own way and to my opinion its a wait of time and money no-one needs it. you look they way you look for a reason its your own body and its beautiful the way it is god didnt make ugly he made beauty in the eyes of him...
Anonymous
No i most likely would not. Beauty can be defined in many ways & i choose not to allow the media dictate my image of beauty & what i should spend my money on. Aside from this, i think it is unnatural alter the physical body for any purpose & it may have an impact on your health.
Anonymous
Yep for sure
Anonymous
no i would never unless any physical problem or pain
Anonymous
no i would never go just in the name of beauty but if i have some physical problem and have money too then why not
Anonymous
no i would never go just in the name of beauty but if i have some physical problem and have money too then why not
stewart89
only if i was truly disfigured
Anonymous
I would, and am planning to have breast implant surgery next year. I don't see a problem with enhancing your looks, if it makes you happy!
Anonymous
I dont think there is anything wrong with plastic surgery. It can completely change someones life in such positive ways sometimes. I do think counseling and screening should be done beforehand and following to make sure the clients are in full clear state of mind and also to make sure it doesnt become an addiction. Cause it so easily could.
Anonymous
I would only go under the knife to correct scarring or deformatity
Uncle Rob
Let your face have som CHARACTER! !
Uncle Rob
A make-up free face & a nice smile beats knife-work on your face hands down
Anonymous
I will never!
I was born a beauty and will stay this way....
loismary
It seems these days it is a common practice. Years ago very few people wore braces on their teeth, now every second young adult seems to have them. Personally myself I would not go under the knife in the name of beauty. Too scared!
breahd2013
Personally i wouldn't go under the knife. I strongly believe that natural beauty is best and has an particular meaning to most women.
margcafe
NO
Anonymous
definitely not,it is to dangerous
christine30
Have not done but would not rule it out
christine30
Have not done but would not rule it out
Anonymous
I would not do plastic surgery as it will have lots of side effects after that.
Anonymous
I wouldn't, We are all beautiful in our own way. It just takes someone special to see that beauty.
deeza
Too many things can and do happen without inviting possible negative outcomes in, so, no, I wouldn't, not in the name of beauty. I'd never stop kicking myself if I made things worse.
Rolits
i would not go under the knife in the name of beauty because i am already contented with the simple beauty that i have.
Anonymous
Absolutely. Only the cost is currently prohibitive for me. As soon as it is possible I will do it. People tend to judge us by how we look, and expect certain dress sense and behaviour. I have just turned 50, but I do not feel that old. I still have teenage children with friends who have much younger mums, and they make me feel so old!
Anonymous
yes i would if i had the money to do it i hate the tops of my arms and would have them done in a heart beat if i could afford it
Anonymous
no, have tried cosmetic acupuncture, works well but you need between 10 and 15 treatments
jenz64
These days seems every second woman you talk to is considering or has had a procedure that involves mayor surgery . I find it sad that women feel so insecure about their looks that the only option is plastic surgery.. personally I wouldn't consider it .
Anonymous
I would love to go under the knife in the name of beauty to raise my self esteem. If only it was not expensive and full of risks. In saying that I would get plastic surgery- I mean little procedures here and there such as lips, cheeks, eyes, brows and botox.
At 22 years of age, I do not see myself getting major surgery such as boobs or tummy tuck, but perhaps in the future, I may.
Anonymous
Definitely... when our houses get run down and weather beaten we renovate or spruce them up to keep them looking good. Why not 'renovate' our bodies to keep them looking good.
frilly
I would not go under the knife for my face unless I had some disfigurement but although aged 76 I would be first in line for a breast reduction if I was allowed an anaesthetic.
I have suffered with trying to buy bras large enough for my breasts. Even my husband agrees it is an almost impossible job. I am size 22 I / J. Trying to buy a bra that gives really good support, fail to give me a "mono boob" I have to resort to try buying online as no one anywhere near where I live sells bras with large cups unless you are size 10 / 16.
Where do they think women who had large breasts when they were young have put their breasts because they have grown older. They just do not melt unfortunately.
Large breasts run in my family, one of my granddaughters at the age of 16 was only size 12 but after removal of a kilo fro each breast she is still a E/F Cup fitting.
Her mother has just had a breast reduction & had 500 grams removed from each breast. I so envy her, she looks as if she has lost a ton of weight but she is still an "H" Cup
Anyone know of any really good Bra selling place online but not Big Girls Don't Cry Any More. They are struggling to try to help. I will be eternally grateful
larrythe lamb
No one should be happy in yourself.
Anonymous
I personally wouldn't go through that sort of pain if it was anything minor such as ageing or round rings around my eyes, but if it was something unbareable such as radiation or being in a car accident then perhaps I would consider it. I just don't trust people that are looking after a big part of my body such as my face because it could go wrong and I could look even more horrible than being in the car accident. But if it was something like heat radiation I would probably have no choice.
Anonymous
Yes i would go under the knife in the name of beauty! and I totally agree with those women who feel insecurities about themselves and the need to do so. If it makes you feel more confident about yourself and make you like the way you are as a person better, than go for it. But i disagree when women do it because others don't approve of their insecurities; last time i checked what other people think doesn't matter, so long as you're happy then do you :)
Anonymous
I probably wouldn't go under the knife just yet, however i would never say no to botox or fillers - staying youthful-looking is very important to me.
Anonymous
NO i would not go under the kinfe for beaut because i am happy with the way that i am. yes i would like to loss some kgs but i would like to loss it the old fashion way though hard work. S2
Anonymous
I wouldn't go under the knife for beauty reasons.
the need for which I feel springs from low esteem..and there is no guarantee that cosmetic surgery will shoot it-low self -esteem ,up ....infact who's to know if it has the exact opposite effect!
self esteem can be worked upon without any surgeries...
Anonymous
I won't go under knife just for the improved features.It may be required for some person whose asset is their looks or who have medical concerns.After having improved features I'm not going to change as a person.How far my looks will get me?Its better to evolve as a person by doing so many things we always wanted rather than spending money on surgery.
willscarlett
Nope! *pops the p*. I'm happy with the way I look, but even if I wasn't (which everybody should be, because everybody is beautiful and unique), I wouldn't do it. The only reason I would would be if I was in a plane crash or something and desperately needed it for my face to actually look normal. Other than that, I wouldn't. it can do harmful things to you and the only reward you get is a satisfied vanity.
Anonymous
Never would go under the knife to change my appearance. unless I'd been burned but not for comestic reasons. With all the wigs, eye lash extensions and beauty products these days anyone can make themselves a model ..
medu
If i had the money i will surely do the needful.but since i dont have any i will age gracefully.What other option do i have!!!
dman
I had a Korean partner and her and most of her friends had done the "eye opening" (westernising of the eye) cosmetic surgery which is very common there. But I say if you want it go for it.
Anonymous
no way, i think plastic surgery doesn't make you any better. all it does is take away your natural beauty and you can never get it back the same. once you go under the knife, you won't be unique.
Anonymous
Personally, i prefer the natural look. but alternatively i have small breasts, and i see no reason in being ashamed for wanting/having breast implants and/or any other sorts of surgery.
Anonymous
Absolutely not
keza1990
Why do we need to? we were born into this world the way we are, embrace it! although I do understand if its for a health reason rather than a 'just because'.
RACE
no way....
Anonymous
Yes, my apperance is very important to me for it both helps me feel confident and content. I would only maintain but not over use to were it is very apperant to the public.
Anonymous
Despite all the horror stories we here, we cant forget there has been sucess' too and as long as whatever procedure i may want to undertake,if i have researched it properly and to the best of my ability, I would be willing to get plastic surgery.
Anonymous
No for I think after going under the knife people start to look fake but a lot of people do to try and make them look sexyer
Gabbawomble
I haven't been "under the knife", as such...but I have been under the syringe! I have had Botox in my forehead and to lift my drooping eyelids. It did make a difference, but I only had it done the once. I felt that it did improve the "tired" appearance in my face but I was unable to maintain it because of the cost involved. Strangely enough, after having it done, my forehead wrinkles don't bother me so much now that they have reappeared...I seem to be a little more accepting of my face's ageing process and maybe a little less self-critical.
Katers93
If I had the money, yes I would. In this day and age there is so much pressure to look beautiful and I often feel insecure about my imperfections. I would only consider nose reconstruction as its something I've always felt insecure about.
Anonymous
No i have never been under the knife in the name of beauty i think women look better without plastic surger.
Madsta
no im happy just the way i am i would change for anyone
wendel
Depends if I really had problems that worried me about something, then I probably would. But not just for beauties sake.
ausdolphin
Yes for removal of excess skin after a huge weightloss. No for anything else.
ashli
No i would not because all surgery can lead to death so it is not a risk i am willing to take if it means i will lose my life.
Anonymous
I agree with many others, in that I would not go under the knife for beauty unless it was due to a horrific accident.
tina
no l wood not
Anonymous
i wouldnt because i have nothing on my body that exercise cant change, but if something were to happen to me that would make me uncomfortable with my looks then i would consider it.
Anonymous
Something minor maybe but nothing major. Too scared of looking badly or over done. Besides what's wrong with growing older the way we are meant to.
Anonymous
I would prefer non invasive procedures as they are less likely to get it wrong and make you look funny.
Anonymous
No i wouldn't go under the knife because everyone is beautiful
Anonymous
no,i wouldnt and havent. it would just make everybody think beauty is all that matters, nobody needs plastic surgery anyway your all beautiful
Anonymous
i wouldnt go under the knife myself but, women out there go under for personal reasons and others do it as a hobby
Anonymous
No, prefer to age gracefully
Anonymous
I have thought about it, however it is expensive and would never travel aboad to have surgery.
Anonymous
No, I wouldn't go under the knife for pure cosmetic reasons, unless there was an accident that changed and disfigured me permanently
Kikkja
Since my children are older and no longer require breastfeeding I would consider having my boobs done, I've seen friends who have had the fat taken from their butt and put in their breasts and I was amazed by the results, so yes. I would also consider botox for wrinkles. Yet I would do this to make myself feal better not for any other reason.
Anonymous
I would go under the knife if given the chance. Because the technology is there, so why not use it? And if we really have some insecurity with our body image, it would really help boost our confidence.
Anonymous
Personally i wouldn't go under the knife just to look better, only if it was a health or major confidence issue. There are plenty of products out there as well as fresh healthy food to keep us looking as well as we can.
Anonymous
No.
Anonymous
no
suz
I went under the knife 15 yrs ago for a horrible double chin and bags under my eyes which I had since I was very sick when I was 10. I have no regrets whatsoever and would get more done if I had the money ie: breast reduction mine are so heavy I get back and shoulder pains. I am not chasing perfection in fact I do not look any younger than what I am I just removed things that made me look 10 yrs older than what I was
Adelweiss
No, I would not have plastic surgery just in the name of beauty. I have seen and heard of too many horror stories when things have gone wrong! I think it is safer (and cheaper) to use non-surgical means to enhance one's natural beauty.
Anonymous
Yes. There are a few things i would like altered on my body for confidence wise and if the resorces are availible to make u happier with yourself then why not use it
tarls_rhys
Even though there are things i would like to change by going under the knife i dont think that i ever would. But i think it is completely okay to do so, its a personal choice.
Anonymous
Although I am totally in awe of natural beauty, the pressures of modern lifestyle tend to get to the modern generation. If someone opted for surgery, I wouldn't be against it. When one can spend time and money to get 'Harvard' on their resume, what's wrong in altering that slightly out-of-shape nose or enlarging those unnoticeable breasts? To each their own! If you want to please the Investment Banking firms, so be it! In the same way, if you want your husband or the entire male sector of the population to take more notice, so be it love!
Anonymous
Personally I would... there are numerous things I would like to change about myself esspecially since I have had children.
Anonymous
No I personally wouldn't do plastic surgery because I believe that everyone is beautiful no matter what. Y would you change your self for more appealing attraction to yourself from people ! God didn't get plastic surgery , y should u ?
Anonymous
I wouldn't change anything such as my facial features but i am someone who has developed at all in the breasts so just to be able to boost my confidence and actually have a bump/little breasts then yes i would. i wouldnt do it for attention or to get extremely large breasts but instead to give me tiny ones and be able to feel confident when wearing clothes such as dresses and tops.
qtem
I would never go under the knife for the sake of vanity. Why not age as nature intended us to do.
taracharles
I would if I needed to have breast removed because of cancer but for simply improving looks I would not.
Ness76
Personally I will not and have never gone under the knife. I believe its only needed for people with major medical problems. people with a face distortion.
Anonymous
I would consider it. As body shapes changes and features as you get older, nothing to substantial, just some touch ups.. Eg Lipo, Breast Aug (lift)
Anonymous
no
PGS
Expand a little & say what the Korean ladies where having done...
Most of them would have been boob jobs or eye opening/widening. A few would have been nose raising/straightening.
It's a shae that western influence has infiltrated to that level. Korean girls are quite pretty as they are.
Miss Prim
Definitely not and the only reason I would are the reasons stated by Porsche. I am a grandmother and happy with my laughter lines and life. It is a truly personal choice for those who have plastic surgery but I really don't need it.
kelliejane
Yes and I have... I had surgery 2 yrs ago (and in Saudi Arabia of all the places in the world) breast augmentation and its the best thing I have ever done. Love the results and I had the best treatment ever. And yes I would do it again.
Benji
No I haven't and never will. Have a look at everyone over 60....if you have had surgery or not you will look the same in the Nursing Home and even by the time you are 70. Why waste your money...go on a holiday, have fun with your children/grandchilden...go out for luch ...live life as it was meant to be!!
doxdeb
I would go under the knife but that is my personal opinion. I believe it is up to the individual but on saying that, I think there are some people, even young girls who are obsessed by it to the point that they look freakish
bubblesox
I wouldn't mind a bit of liposuction on the old bum and thighs!
millsy94
yep tummy and thighs in my case!!
kitekat
Its a personal choice, for medical or confidence reasons. I wouldnt do it myself Im 54 and am quite happy with my wrinkles. Its what each individual wants.
Moonwarrior
I would not go under the knife for the sake of beauty after seeing some of the blunders, but if I had a bad disfigurement then I would more than likely do it. I have thought about it in the past but never put the thoughts into practice.
kess
Had a nose job 34 years ago - have not regretted if for even one day. Just an ordinary person who hated having a bumpy nose and had the opportunity to have it " bobbed" and took it.
Mazamac
I had my eyelids done over 20 years ago, because of big bags under my eyes that would stay swollen if I was tired, had a cold etc. Best thing I ever did. Now over 60 and my face is aging nicely with the rest of me:-)
Porsh_a
Personally I wouldn't go under the knife in the name of just vanity ... however if it was because of a disfigurement as a result of a horrific accident or illness, or something that was causing physical pain - then sure - why not?
Captured
I am glad to hear everything went well for you and that the procedure resulted in you being able to be more confident within yourself.
If i was ever to get have the option of this type of surgery, i think i would go ahead with a tummy tuck and slight breast reduction on one of my breasts (they're quite noticeably lop-sided) to make them more even.
I have had 4 c/sections as well as other emergency surgery which has resulted in my belly being something i am ashamed of.
My current body shape/looks is something that resulted in me having an extremely low self esteem. I have tried many things but as yet, am still yet to find something to help me see myself differently. Surgery would not make me pretty or attractive to anyone else. It would be purely for myself to make me feel feel better about myself.
bluegirl
I agree with you Porch, why have unnecessary surgery and risk complications just for vanity. Illness or pain is a different story.
daisy
yes iagree we are what we are why should we change our body just to suit that person we werent meant to chnange our bodies weare what we are lets be greatful because god made us in his image
daisy
yes iagree we are what we are why should we change our body just to suit that person we werent meant to chnange our bodies weare what we are lets be greatful because god made us in his image
Anonymous
so your saying that if you had lets say a birth mark on you face and you got bullied every day for it you wont have it removed? I think that is total bull shit
rit
I agree, beauty is the best even with your imperfections
rit
I agree, beauty is the best even with your imperfections
rit
I agree, beauty is the best even with your imperfections
rit
I agree, beauty is the best even with your imperfections
rit
I agree with you, beauty is the best even with your imperfections
rit
rit
yes absolutely true.
rit
I am very satisfied with your answer. natural beauty is the best even with your imperfections.
Anonymous
Anonymous
i am also agree with you
Anonymous
hellloooo
Karsh
I agree with you Porsh, in those circumstances definitely.
Deb61
This is so true. There's this perception about beauty, but what and who defines beauty. Everyone is an individual and all possess originality and that is what makes us different to each other. Health and living a good life is more important.
Trinis
I feel the same way! I do not get why so many people do it for no apparent reason. There are so many people that do it that look much better before than after surgery.
Anonymous
people should accept the way they look instaed of trying to look like evryone else unless you were in a serious accident then sure. no one likes a mannequin
Jessa90
Personally no as I believe beauty is with in... A disfigurement to a certain extent I would handle with out surgery but something major I would consider it
kez01
i would if i had to the only time i would go under the knife and if i need an op other wise i wont go under the knife i only really had one big surgery and that was when i had my little boy3 years ago for a c secition otherwise i wont go under the knife
Assaya
I agree too. I have had minor cosmetic surgery which was to remove a facial growth, and some moles, for both self esteem and health safety.
Brandywine
I think I would agree with you..I don't agree with vanity..but if you were disfigured you would be desperate enough to look at all the options..
apple_barbara
Have to agree with you here anabela, no doubts
apple_barbara
I also agree with you Coco, today appreciation of one's inner beauty seems to have gone by the wayside for the knife. Let's just appreciate ourselves for what we are.
blondie72
I couldn't agree with you more! It's saddening to watch young girls and women who are already naturally beautiful in their own individual way doing this to themselves just to "keep up with the Joneses" and to try to conform to an unrealistic expectation from certain groups of people and certain media types such as magazines. I dread to think of the side-effects and long term problems this type of surgery will have on many people in the future - some are like "guinea pigs" for unscrupulous individuals wishing to cash in on other people's insecurities. I personally am against it unless it is for extreme psychological reasons, or as you said earlier, for an illness or after an horrific accident.
melsommerrose
i tottaly agree
Han.charlotte
I think its important to not blur self confidence with vanity, distinguishing between these two very different things shifts the entire argument. Most women pursue some sort of regime to ensure their skin lasts longer from putting on a hat when they go out in the sun, to a rigorous skin care regime, no body likes to age, and I agree it is so important to embrace ourselves and our flaws. BUT if a man or woman feels the need to alter themselves to have the self confidence to go to the beach or wear a certain outfit I agree that they should go for it.
I think that the bigger question is how far should people go.
amanda515
Yesvi would get surgery
purpleboo
thanks for the link. it did something for me!
Anonymous
its always easy to say when some people dont need to get an adjustment. i dont see anything wrong with getting plastic surgery.....especially if you are not confident within yourself. its just like being overweight is there anything wrong with hiring a personal trainer to lose the weight? or would you say that god made us all beautiful and it doesnt matter how we look! we shouldnt feel pressured to lose weight! no, no one would say that
salehi
I totally agree with your opinion
Anonymous
i wouldnt go under a knife god made everyone beautiful and he didnt make us to go under a knife
Anonymous
I agree, no one is perfect we should all be happy with what we look like and focus on the beauty we already have! And be thankful for what we have.
Tashie
I recently watched a video about women who had the make-over/Photoshop rework which would make them into the women 'we' aspire to look like (the women who don't look that way anyway)
They all didn't particularly like the results because it took away from who they were as individuals. It's the same idea for cosmetic surgery really, when does it stop being you?
Here's the link if anyone is interested: http://www.upworthy.com/4-ladies-get-the-cover-model-makeover-of-their-dreams-and-then-hate-the-results-11113
kreative
Ouch
BBB
About a year ago a had a breast enlargement and have never been happier with the results. I was always quite shy and self conscious in tight tops and wearing swimmers. I believe I stunted my own growth due to my love of running since I was a teenager, but whatever the case, they simply never quite developed and I didn't feel like I had a real woman's body. I am so confident and happy now with my body. I had the procedure done in australia by a qualified and experienced plastic surgeon and the whole experience was faultless. Yes, I can't run as much as I used to now (I just use the cross trainer instead) but I definitely prefer the more womanly me. Sometimes this kind of thing can actually make u a much happier and confident person so it's completely up to the woman if she feels this is what she needs that or not.
jjdrer
Thank you. I also make sure that I also wear a wide brimmed hat outdoors in the warm weather. Unfortunately I forgot a few weeks ago when I took the kids to the park. We normally make the kids have hats on too. Last time the elder one forgot too - she sometimes reminds me. Unfortunately the younger one who is a 20 months old and has fair skin and was in his stroller most of the time got his face sunburnt while on the swing for a few minutes. Luckily the stroller has a really large hood on it. He was only on the swing for about 10 minutes. We put Aloe Vera Gel on it for 3 days -twice a day and the redness and soreness completely disappeared. He only complained when we touched it but we noticed the redness within a few hours. It ididn't show for a few hours.
kreative
I totally agree.
kreative
Glad to hear it was nothing serious
Mikki08
I totally agree! You should feel comfortable in your own skin
Pot
I also would'nt go under the knife just for vanity but I would to make myself feel better about myself. So many want to be something they are not with their looks or body and that is not who they are. I would 'tweak' little things, eg. sagging jowls as I got older but I would not want to look like I was caught a frozen wind tunnel. I would want to grow old gracefully but respectfully.
Ingi
I agree with you Coco, who is perfect? No-one? and what is perfection in a human being? We are all individuals with individual quirks, manners, looks etc. A healthy body and a healthy mind are more important and a normal lifestyle with basic good manners, compassion for others and willing to help others in need is more important than facelifts, boob lifts etc.
Anonymous
i always wanted a boob job further along the track but due to all the complications involved and the big scandals that the news talks about (how surgeons are using lower quality materials to save costs) i dont think i would now risk it. Especially after seeing first hand what can happen if a reaction occurs.
pieface
I agree with all you say and I am happy with what God gave me. A lot of people would like to look and have what I have even though I am no beauty but have a great hubby, kids and health.
Jonda
I totally agree with your views in that if it was an absolute necessity as in the event of a terrible disfigurement, i would most certainly consider a corrective surgery.
jjdrer
I was relieved that the the growth was not cancerous. I now have to wear foundation with strong sunscreen in it.
Blossom
I agree. I have a scar on my nose (caused by a fall which resulted in a broken nose and split the skin) which doesn't bother me except I was unlucky enough to get a growth at one end of it. I have just had a biopsy and warned I may now have a bigger scar. I am still awaiting results and to get stitches removed later this week. At the moment I am rather nervous.
Anonymous
Sure, no choice there
Anonymous
I agree with you. Today we are under pressure as to what is perfect. I think that natural beauty is the best even with your imperfections. Just appreciate being alive and well.