Cheating while married
Posted by: lolica
12th May 2025 10:48pm
What’s everyone tough about this trend in today’s society, is it normal , Am I last standing dinosaur who will never accept it.
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cazter
If people want to cheat then they shouldn't get married in the first place.
jtmorri
I have never cheated in a relationship or when married and never had it happen to me. Like you, I am very loyal.
To cheat when married or in a relationship shows lack of respect and poor judgement. It reeks of someone always looking for something better and always wanting attention. To me they have low self-esteem and self-worth to have to gain attention to feel good about themselves. Unfortunately, it reflects the cultural shift of younger generations growing up in a throw away society and instantly being able to have something. A lack of commitment, working at something and seeing a job through to completion.
It isn't normal. It shouldn't be socially acceptable. The correct thing to do is to leave a current relationship, have time to yourself to think about what you really want and then if the time and situation is right connect with a new person. That way, there is no betrayal, the hurt is less and everyone can move forward easier.
lolica
Exactly, I agree with you.
lolica
I am extremely loyal, loyal as a dog and will never under no circumstances ever cheat, my morals are extremely high, I respect myself enough to not even imagine doing it, I experienced betrayal and it hurts as hell , why is it so easy for some people to hurt person who was prepared to die for you ?