Arts & Humanities

loss of loved ones

Arts & Humanities

Posted by: stretch

25th Jan 2011 12:45pm

have any of the folk out there ever lost contact with a loved one ie son niece nephew grand kids as a split in the family caused parents to break up and the courts have helped to hide the family away from the ones that were alwys there for them


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tubz
  • 15th Apr 2014 12:08am

No my family doesnt go thro anything like this, but I am a black sheep so well yeah

Anonymous
  • 21st Jul 2013 12:35pm

well I lost contact with my cousins because my family doesn't have a really good past together. My parents divorced also cause of that reason

Anonymous
  • 26th Mar 2013 10:13pm

i havnt but i would hate it if it did happen

jodz
  • 19th Mar 2013 03:17am

Yes i have brothers n sisters that i dont no where they r after thea mother killed my dad i have not seen them in 17 years

stretch
  • 19th Mar 2013 05:01pm
Yes i have brothers n sisters that i dont no where they r after thea mother killed my dad i have not seen them in 17 years

remember to try another town from where you live as well as where the lawyers have tried previously
and a friendly lawyer that will listen helps out heaps if you can afford one

stretch
  • 19th Mar 2013 04:58pm
Yes i have brothers n sisters that i dont no where they r after thea mother killed my dad i have not seen them in 17 years

if it has been a while maybe you should try talking to a lawyer
if this still fails try a court in another town and askfor personal details to be released they have ways of opening files if tyhey really want to

Firefly78
  • 25th Mar 2011 10:29pm

no, sorry to hear that! I recommend professional counselling and getting advice from authorities.

stretch
  • 28th Mar 2011 11:49am
no, sorry to hear that! I recommend professional counselling and getting advice from authorities.

i tried to get help from a lawyer before i started to use an old broadcaster during court cases and lawyers meetings and finding lawyers private homes
i still hunt for wifes of police officers and there children and place there private information over the airways
i started this for fun know days i do it for a little pay back as have been informed by a lawyer that there is no law against it as long as no harm is done by my actions
hint i never ment for the lawyers address to be given up to the people inj jail it just happened
but man i thought it was funny

windgates
  • 21st Mar 2011 07:35pm

I found that daughters in law object to children contacting their grandparents. Over the past 5 years, I have always remembered Birthdays & Christmas. I do not receive a reply or thank you. I have been critised by one grandchild because I had sent present to her father (she was supposed to go on holidays to him) and did not receive gift until later. grandparents are often the ones who suffer most with loss of grandchildren.

stretch
  • 22nd Mar 2011 11:31am
I found that daughters in law object to children contacting their grandparents. Over the past 5 years, I have always remembered Birthdays & Christmas. I do not receive a reply or thank you. I...

man oh man am i the one that got out last
my gran took paper work out on behalf of the family and i had to have it all amended as she believes the great grandkids should not be able to contact the family
but it is a messy family i have another son that came to town a while ago and all i could say is it is up to you if you make contact he did not after looking into it
but we are not all the same
but on average it is the grandparents that loose out the most
as they have generally a lot of love to go around

Phoenixarizona
  • 18th Mar 2011 12:43pm

unfortunately i have seen this happen over money. A very good friend of mine lost his job due to the economic crisis. the child support agency then lowered what he paid (as he had to support himself) the mother then took off and would not allow him to see his child because he was not paying enough child support.
He now has a wonderful job and still pays child support.
only now he pays for a child he does not see and cannot find in order to see. Sadly what the mother does not realise is the effect that this will have on the child. but that's how it is money talks and b.s walks.

stretch
  • 18th Mar 2011 01:16pm
unfortunately i have seen this happen over money. A very good friend of mine lost his job due to the economic crisis. the child support agency then lowered what he paid (as he had to support...

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Connie
  • 9th Mar 2011 11:39am

No sorry but i would hate that if any of my faily went through it

stretch
  • 9th Mar 2011 11:50am
No sorry but i would hate that if any of my faily went through it

you are one of the lucky ones then
in the last 6 years i have meet may people that have gorn through this and many of these people have had to go back through the courts as the agression has built up and they then lash out at the system

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